Friday, January 28, 2011

Please don't throw cigarette butts in the urinal, it's giving the cockroaches cancer!

Okay so I really SHOULDN'T be blogging, but I can't resist! yesterday someone called me "Osaka". Which, funny thing, is from when I was in a musical back in the day. I was "Goddes of the earth" :) It was a lead part, I loved it! Lots of cute boys brought me flowers and loved my show, they came to watch it over and over, I can even recall one of them {Jason. B} bringing a video camera, somewhere, somewhere he's got my performance on tape! Haha!

 Anywho, I sat next to Diedra and Bryan at statistics and it was a blast! i LOVE my friends :) Wyatt and I are going to try going rock climbing today, good luck right? I was thinking about how petrified I was last time I went! I hope it will be fun though, I think Wyatt & I can make fun of any situation if our relationship is on the up and up.

So to give you some laughs, if you ever read this blog, I stole this off of just some things he had taken note of when he was taking a dump at a local bathroom :) some writing on the wall, I think it's hilarious!

*"Make love, not war."
Response: "Heck, do both: get married!" (I obviously sighted this one in Utah! "Heck!")
*"Bad spellers untie!!!"
*"Please don`t throw cigarette butts in urinal, it's giving the cockroaches cancer!"
*"Please don`t throw butts in urinal, it makes them soggy & hard to light." So funny!
*"Celebrate female, armpit hair pride week"
*"I Love Girls!!!"
*"Whoever wrote this was a test tube baby"
*"What moron writes on the bathroom walls?"
*Have a seat and I'll be right with you" (I'm pretty sure i see this one is every ghetto place I go but it's still funny!)
*Written on a condemn dispenser: "Insert baby for refund" (get it? Kind of funny right?)
*"We all lie in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars!" (I'm not sure why I like this one? I think it's actually kind of inspirational?)
*"Don't throw toothpicks in the urinal, crabs can pole-vault" (I've never seen this one but my neighbor just told me it today! Ha!)
*"Friends don't let friends take home ugly chicks

Thursday, January 27, 2011

You've been Jimmered!

So, nothing too exciting has happened these past couple of days, besides me waisting my time reading blogs, sleeping, and watching TV. Really, I NEED to get my act together! And yet here I am updating my blog. I just feel l like I Haven't done it in so long... so long I feel like I needed to updated so I wouldn't completely loose sight about what's happening in my life. Well I have had a couple of ups and downs in life since my last post. Wyatt and I went to our new ward and It's pretty much AWESOME, hooray for young married wards! However, it's HUGE and the women there are all really pretty and seem to dress in expensive apparel, but I think overall it should be a fun ward to be in.

 Wyatt and I walked to church, which I loved because we get to spend that little extra time together and we found each others company pleasant. Uhm... I spotted out a lady on the bus i ride in the morning who seems to get off at a buss stop and then wait for another bus to pick her up (she gets off the 832 and waits for the 831) Anywho, she has no gloves! or a scarf or anything! so I figured this would be a great opportunity for me to become "cool" again. So, I decided that I would by that woman a pair of gloves, as it would turn out I had a scarf that matched the gloves I bought and my mom had made me some ear muffs (headband thing) that matched so i gave her the complete gift! I felt an overwhelming sense of self-esteem and I just felt good about what I had done! {I saw her wearing the gloves today on the bus and It made me SO happy!}.

Another nice thing I felt was, I saw Linda Flores, and talked to her for a bit, I mostly felt like i was just venting, but it later turned out that something I said was something she really needed and it made her feel closer to the spirit, so that made me feel great as well. Uhm Wyatt and I have had our fights but overall I think it will work out just fine. It seems like trevor + andi are going to buy a house and it is gorgeous! it will be perfect for them!

Wyatt & I are planning a "Nacho Libre" party and I've invited who knows how many people to it, I have no idea if anyone will even show up... seeing as how i didn't write the address down on any of the invites! But hopefully it should be fun, eh? One thing is for sure, if no one shows up I'll at least have Wyatt there to celebrate with. Speaking of which, we participated in this marital stud it took about two hours, but they gave us cash. Wahoo! They put these weird sensor things on my head and it felt crazy weird and it got my hair all wet! then we talked about a time where we felt "connected" In marriage. Then afterwards I stared at a computer screen for what seemed like an eternity and tried to identify what way a small arrow in the middle of the screen was facing... Then I had to listen to a voice say some numbers and I had to try and add the numbers he was saying, it was bizzare, but we got our 30$ so were pretty happy.

Wyatt and Trevor got to go to the sandiego game last night, I was pretty for wyatt. Apparently it was NUTs Jimmer Fredette is now the apparent God of Basketball, and he's cute too. I am pretty sure that is about it for things I have to say... bye!


ps. The catch Phrase for the day is "you've been Jimmered!"

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Quero, look alive!

Whoa! It is burning up at the Anthony home. Last night we had an EPIC battle, I mean we were throwing clothes at each other  (okay so mostly I did the throwing of clothes) It was nuts! I mean it was CRAZY I look back on our fight and i wonder how none of us were physically injured!

I was reading my friend's Karen's blog. It seems like her marriage is way to good to be true but who knows maybe they are just that happy together... maybe? Anyways they both seem so happy together and it seems like they never fight! He always seems to be doing nice things for her and vice versa. I don't understand why my marriage can't be like that. I think were both poor married people, students and young. Whats missing?

So today I was doing some soul searching while doing my assignment for family law, and it hit me! I'm emotional abusive!!! Well, not always, but looking back at our fight I said and did some REALLY rude things! I feel horrible for saying those things to him, I'm almost besides myself at my surprisingly horrible behavior.... I don't get it... why do we fight so much?

Then I wondered, are my expectations too high? I quickly realized that they were! I was in the wrong, well I'm sure we both did things in the wrong, but really Wyatt has been doing a GREAT job of trying to be a good husband and i haven't really given him credit for all the amazing things he had been doing such as...

*Telling me I look nice EVERY DAY
*Making my lunch when I can't
*doing my laundry
*holding me when I cry
* cuddling me in the morning {which I love}
*asking me how I am doing {on a regular basis} and then actually intently listening
*working a weekend shift so we could pay for our bills...

How is it that i completely overlooked these things I keep expecting more and MORE out of him, it's like I never get my fill. I remembered an assignment that I had done in one of my classes about the miscommunication between Wyatt and wife. Like, when the husband offers the wife a gift {working so she can stay home} but she wants a different gift {help me with the kids, buy me flowers} both of them end up mad! I also read my assignment for my family law class on emotional abuse, and found to my horror that I am a monster! Without considering how mean or sharp my words can be to Wyatt. I also read a type of emotional abuse called "Trivilizing I guess that is when you make what the other person is doing for the relationship look like less than what it really is... I do that too. Whoa. I have SO much work to do it's kind of unbelievable. Hopefully I can get better at this whole MR. and MRS. thing. Because I have been married for a year and a half now and I am SO over being dramatic and it fights all the TIME I am going to see the bishop today, so maybe we can hack out some of the drama in our marriage so that Wyatt and i can actually be happy and enjoy our marriage. Cuz I'm done with the fights and my hair is falling out WAY too much... Hopefully here's to better times, I always thought that marriage would be like dating except with no limits... I still think it can be like that.We are planning on having at least 5 good years to ourselves, we have plenty of time to play, I think.



PS. today's post title was brought to you by Nacho libre! LOVE that movie, we hare having a nacho party, hopefully it goes well :) I am also going to attempt to call wyatt "Guero" maybe the name will stick!

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Do you feel guilty? NO!! I just don't want to get caught!

I know this picture looks silly to you but I love it! I am so done caring with what other people say or think about me. I think caring about what other people think about me has gotten me in to a sufficient amount of trouble. I really want to try being my own person & while being nice to others, I don't want to let them control my life like I have been letting them for the past 5 years. This is the closest picture that I could get when I used to be cool and not because people thought I was but because I knew I was. This is me! I'm nutz, annoying, and loud. I also have problems spelling! Anywho, these past couple of days have been kind of nutz. My hair is falling out because of all the stress I am feeling! all the pressure {in case you haven't noticed I have discovered the ability to make some words bigger than others} I have lots of homework and while work isn't necessarily hard it still takes up time. however I LOVE the people I work with, they have proven to be amazing friends.
Speaking of friends the Lord has blessed me with being able to see SO MANY of my friends! I see Matt Wise all the time, I see Mika every saturday at Fiesta Practice, I also watched devotional with her and Auna Janice with her today! I am beginning to see my roommates more, Alyssa also goes to Zumba with me. I have seen Emily Jacobsen, and so many other people. I feel like God has sent them my way to let me know that I'm not alone in the world.
Things between Wyatt & I seem like a roller coster up an down. So I called bishop and requested an interview with him to help us keep our marriage more on the happy side rather than the sad side. Last night I kind of broke down in tears because I was looking through our special box and I realized that it had been a LONG time since we had been happy together like maybe we were for an entire month, sad I know. But I was thinking today and we can still have fun together and fall in love again, I don't think we are completely lost! So i talked to Wyatt about doing fun things like we used to. Things that would help us enjoy each others company again. hopefully with some ideas  we can have that spark in our marriage again. Here is hoping for the best!


PS. Today's Post title was brought to you by anonymous! He had cheated {a little} on a test and he seemed anxious about it. So I asked him, do you feel guilty about cheating? He replied... "No way! I did what I needed & wanted to do! I just don't want to get caught!" Godly sorrow for you :)